Ask the Mean Mom

What the kids wanted was not what they got, and for once, my husband I didn't agree.

Parents, Unite! What Happens if a “Mean” Mom Lives With a “Softie” Dad?

First, happy new year. And second, thanks to my Facebook Mean Moms Rule subscribers, who answered my “what should I blog about next/what do you guys want to talk about” post the other day. So many great ideas! I’ve decided to start by addressing this: What happen when you and the adult person you’re raising your kids with aren’t on the same page with issues like discipline? You know, you’re mean, he’s mushy? You make a rule, he scoffs? (Or, of course, vice versa)? Love it! So here goes: I think I may have said this four million times in …Keep Reading

This is Rebecca, a $105 American Girl doll.

American Girl Doll the “Price” of Admission for a Birthday Party? FAIL!

This’ll be short, because it’s a short story that’s left me, on the how-do-I-feel spectrum, adrift between puzzled and spitting mad, and I’m interested in opinions. The other night, at our friends’ house for pizza, my friend, Sally, mentioned that her daughter, Phoebe, who is five, was just invited to one of her pals’ birthday parties. Because this little girl has an August birthday, I guess it’s been an issue — people out of town, parties hard to plan — and the girl apparently really wanted Phoebe to be there. So the girl’s mother texted Sally to let her know …Keep Reading